Saturday, March 13, 2010

so i like this guy and he likes me but i think hes playing games and thinks imma joke cuz hes HOT and im pretty but chubby idkk...any advice.

I think it's soooo cool that people ask me for advice :) it makes me feel like my word matters<3 anyways babygirl, listen...... Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings. ALWAYS remember that. I've always been chubby but I've never let me stop that from doing anything. Pay attention to th way this kid treats you and acts around you. Some guys just really arent shallow, and they care for more than just looks - maybe he's one of those guys. But honestly sweetie, if you think he's playing games w/ you, then DONT SETTLE. There's a guy out there who willllllll treat you right & do right by you, so never ever settle for leas than that. All in all, give it some more time, & if you're still confused about where things are going w/ him, then just sit him down & talk to him! Hopefully he's honest, and if you guys aren't on tha same page, don't stress it! There are huuuundredddds of other guys ;) good luck!<3

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people on here need to stop with the Alex questions because i bet its not easy talking about it when the wound is fresh. you two broke up! BIG DEAL PEOPLE ; SHIT HAPPENS! take care :)

Honestly...... I'm over it. & I say that w/ every ounce of honesty I have in my heart. For six days, I didn't eat, sleep, go to school, work, basically I just stayed home and cried and cried and cried. I loved Alex w/ everything I had inside of me; but I've always been strong emotionally. Breaking up is no fun at all, but breaking down won't do you any good. In order to truly be happy in life, you have to learn to accept the things you cannot change. I can't change the fact that Alex left me for another girl, so I might as well accept it. It's like I said in a previous answer, I'm only 18 yrs old - and when you're this young, nothing is forever. Shit, I don't even know if I'M gonna survive til tomorrow, nevermind a relationship. BUT I do agree w/ you though, people who are soooo concerned w/ Alex need to stfu & move on w/ their lives. It's annoying, not because it's a "fresh wound" but because I have no more feelings for him - he's dead to me. But thank youuuu, whoever you are<3

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Friday, March 12, 2010

If a guy really loves a girl and wants to only be with her, should he fight to stay with her? (not literally fighting lol)

wellllll..... i guess it all depends on their situation.... whats their situation? lol

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how'd you move on so fast after a long ass relationship?

same way he did, lol. it's really not that serious, i'm 18 yrs old & it's not like i was married to him or anything. i got a short attention span, it's on to the next oneeeee, ya dig? ;)

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me and my (ex)boyfriend been off & on and we recently started talking again. We've been together 2 yrs we've broken up {real) twice and now we're talking, oh our relationships ruins EVERY summer =| ; weird, advice? - siqned lost in love.

Honestly..... The best advice I can give you is to move on. What's broken is broken, & sometimes it's better to rememer it as it was than to hurt yourself trying to put back the pieces. Whatever you decide to do, always remember that YOUR happiness comes first. Good luck<3

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Monday, March 8, 2010

haha dont sound like a gold digger, i know your not lol

I'm notttttt a gold digger. I have two jobs & I make good money. I just bought a brand new car. I have everything I want cuz I get it myself. Alex can take his AP Jon & shove it where the sun don't shine, he spoiled me cu he wanted to & never cuz I asked for it. Don't let him fool you though, I've blown sooooo much money on him just the same though. But I wouldn't take anything back or change anything, that was my baby & he deserved it.

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he definitely downgraded!

He sure did ;) the kid I'm talking to now drives a siiiiick car, has a great job, lives on his own, has a college degree & is fly as fuuuuuck. So we know who ended up coming out on top ;)

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Lol damn a white girl... smh wat was he thinkin

Womp womp womp, I know right?! This chick has more facial hair than he does lmfaooo it's rediculouuus.

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i like your honesty :)

Alot of people tell me that, lol thanks.

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why did alex do you dirty ?

I made some mistakes in the past. We both made mistakes --more on my part though. But it's all good cuz Alex knows the deal, now that I know what went wrong, I can fix it. But he decided to leave me for some corny ass white girl instead.

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well if he asked to come back to you, would you accept him?

Well...... I'm currently talking to someone & he's soooo sweet :) but Alex is and will always be my first love, and a part of my heart will always be his. We all have a certain weakness for the person we adore, so the answer to this question ulises yes.

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do you think you and alex will get back together?

No.

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Sunday, March 7, 2010

you're so beautiful & independent, why do you even bother wasting time on a male like that?

Awwww, thank you<33333 I wanna know who this is :)

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alex left you for another girl? why

Cuz I'm too good for him - & apparently he felt the need to downgrade.

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